SECRET OF SUCCESSFUL LIFE

 

 

7 THINGS TO KEEP PRIVATE. SHOULD NEVER TELL ANYONE

Speak slowly, no one should listen, often we all hear saying like this  every time but do know why our forefather said like this lets know which things we should keep private and never telling anyone 

 it is a matter of thinking that when such things come out of our mouth and when they fall into the ears of others, because there is such a thing that we do not want to let it fall in others ear or knowledge because that things may be the reason for the disturbance in the family.

we may or may not be able to see this, but this is an unchanging truth.

Knowingly unknowingly or by getting swayed by emotions, we tell those things to others which we should not tell. Knowingly or unknowingly, the things that we tell others become the cause of our sorrows and become the cause of our quarrels. And then later we regret that I should not have told this to anyone. It was my fault that knowingly and unknowingly I told this to everyone. That's why I am going to tell you the things, from this you will know that you should not tell these 7 things to anyone. I will also give you the logic of why not tell. If you think that I have forgotten or left it apart from these things, then please do tell in the comment section by going to the comment area. Your cooperation and support will encourage me to write more. So let's know what are the 7 things that we should not tell anyone in our life.

1.THE FIRST THING IS YOUR HELPLESSNESS -

Never make the mistake of taking anyone's help by showing off your helplessness and being a vessel of their kindness. It may be that today someone help you because of your helplessness, but tomorrow the same person will never stop taking advantage of you. That person may not take advantage of you  but will never stop making fun of you in front of others. That's why sometimes you should not tell your complusion to others.

2. YOU SHOULD NEVER TELL YOUR PAST MISTAKE AND FUTURE STRATEGY TO ANYONE.

If the mistakes that have been committed cannot be rectified by telling someone, then what is the use of telling them to someone else to prove yourself a fool in someone eye's? And the mistakes you tell to others will form a character in his eyes and he will always look at you from that point of view. So don't let any man's eyes mold your character. Don't even tell your future strategies to anyone. Telling future strategies to a person who is not a part of your strategy is like boasting which is of no use. Those people will not help you in your future strategies but will definitely  create obstacles in your work. and if you tell your future planning to someone, then it is possible that before you that person may start earning by takin advantage of your planning and later you will regret.

3. DON'T TELL QUARRELS OF  YOUR HOME TO ANYONE 

Keep quarrels of your parents, wife and cheildrem confined to your home only. Telling others will give them a chance to enter your home and they will take you away form the family members. It often happens that we tell the problems of the home to others, tell it to relatives emotionally, but instead of helping them, increase the quarrels in the home. Because no parents or wife and children likes that the problems of their home should be known to outsiders.

4. DO NOT TELL YOUR INCOME TO ANYONE

Never tell anyone how much you earn, how much money you have never share such kind of things to anyone because if people or relatives knows that you have money then they start to ask for your help and if in case you wont help them then this can lead to a fight with you.

5. DON'T TELL YOUR WEAKNESS AND STRENGTHS TO ANYONE

Don't tell your strength and your weakness to anyone because those who know your weakness will take an advantage of  your weakness and those who know your strength they will find the way to cut your strength and take advantage of you.

6. DON'T TELL YOUR FRIENDS AND ENEMIES TO ANYONE

If you tell others about your friends, then they can cheat you by increasing intimacy with your friends or can make your friends away from you. Often the common man does not do this but your enemies can do this. And on the other hand, your enemy should not known to anyone because if the person who is your friend today becomes your enemy tomorrow, he can ruin you by joining hands with enemy.

7. DON'T TELL ABOUR YOUR DONATION TO ANYONE

Don't tell to anyone about your donation. When you donate and tell others, then ego builds up inside you that how big a donor you are. Due to which your donation is better if donation is done secretly. When your right donates, your left hand should not even know.

In Hindu religion only you get education of such interesting and important things.